I’ve mentioned before that a lot of friends, family and co-workers will ask me variations of the question “How can I get into better shape/health?” It’s pretty much the most popular question I get… you know, besides “Do they sell elite-level handsomeness like yours in a bottle? Because I would totally buy that.” The answer to the 2nd question is, sadly no. This is just how God made me.
Truth be told, the 2nd most popular question I am asked is “How do I get started on getting healthier?” This is a trickier and much more fundamental question than the first one entirely. The first question assumes a level of action or momentum whereas the second question is looking for something to begin that momentum. Essentially, the person asking the question is looking for some kind of catalyst to get things moving.
I found the following definition of a catalyst over at Chemicool:
A substance that speeds up a chemical reaction, but is not consumed by the reaction; hence the catalyst can be recovered unchanged at the end of the reaction it has been used to speed up, or catalyze.
The more detailed discussion on the definition goes on to say that a catalyst acts to lower the amount of energy required to cause activation in a chemical reaction.
Isn’t that really what someone is asking about when they want to know what it takes to get off the couch and get going with a better lifestyle? Some way to ease the transition from one state to yet another by lower the barriers and resistance?
I know it may seem like I am getting off into semantics here, but it’s an important point and why I think the catalyst concept is so important for people who feel like they want to change, but cannot muster up that first push. The catalyst helps get things going by making the transition from one state to the next easier and it does not get consumed in the process. After all is said and done, the catalyst remains.
So where does that get us for those looking to make the move? Here are my tips and thoughts on that.
- Get pissed off. No really. There is a substantial amount of power to be tapped from a complete sense of being fed up and dissatisfied. I am not suggesting you turn into a wall-punching lunatic, but to take some time to think about why you are even considering a lifestyle change. Maybe you were playing with a grandchild and were getting winded easily and had to cut short the fun. Maybe you are sick of your lower back feeling like it has daggers sticking into it every time you want to go dancing. Maybe you think wistfully back on the days of being an athlete and wonder why you replaced quick feet for a beer gut. Or maybe you saw your doctor who shook his head disapprovingly at your stress levels and blood work results. Give some time to really think about whatever it is that got you thinking about making a change. Many times, it will make you a little more restless… and that’s good in this case.
- Start small. It’s not necessarily the case that you need to make a full 180 degree change from how your life was before. That approach does work for some people, but for others it’s just a quick path to hitting huge roadblocks, stalled progress and eventually giving up. But some action is absolutely better than none and as any high school physics student can tell you, an object in motion tends to stay in motion. If you are even doing something small, the barriers to moving onto the next step are not going to be nearly as great.
- Go after things of interest to you. I can give someone all the advice in the world about weight training and interval conditioning, but if they simply are disinterested in that, it’s of no use. I think that points gets lost on some people providing advice – they treat it as an all-or-nothing kind of thing. I am a strong believer in the power of a proper resistance training program, smart diet and good conditioning to make a big impact not just on your health or bodyfat, but your quality of life. But I also know it’s not going to interest everyone, so I am not going to force feed anyone my philosophy. I will try and seek out what is the area that someone may have an interest to seek out. Again, the catalyst is all about lowering the barriers to make the reaction change occur. If someone used to be a dancer, they might like to try a dance class. Then the ball may begin rolling along and they branch out from there, but the key is to seek out that thing of interest first and make the push there.
I only went with 3 tips because what I considered as a 4th option is not really a tip so much as a fact: it’s your own personal decision to take action in the end. There are a lot of wonderful ways to ease that decision, but it will still be ultimately up to you to make that choice. The trick is that when you are in a long-term state of inaction, the choice can seem massive and curling up on the couch with some Cheetos to watch Jersey Shore is a whole lot easier if that if what you’ve been doing… and if that is truly what you’ve been doing, God help you. That show is crap.
So from whence shall come your catalyst? Look to thine own self.
Now I need to go spend a few minutes thinking why I lapsed into sounding like the King James Version of the Bible. Hoo boy.